I was in ICU having had open heart surgery which didn’t go as planned and they couldn’t get my heart to beat on its own without being paced by an external pacemaker. I was in a bad way. My partner and father to my 3 y.o son at the time rang the ICU. The nurse came over with the phone and said, “I’ve got your husband on the phone. He wants to say good night”. She handed me the phone and he said “I cant log onto the internet, what’s our WiFi password?” What’s worse is that he is a doctor and would have known how serious my condition was in ICU! At the end of the very brief phone call the nurse said to me, “oh how sweet is he, ringing to say good night.” I didn’t have the heart or stomach to tell her what he really said. I ended the relationship pretty quickly once I eventually got discharged.